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Reply #140 on: October 16, 2016, 02:55:17 PM

I'll post some pics when I feel stronger, I started to go through them and it's too soon. I did look at my camera for the last pic I took, it was him banging his stuffed lion. Last video? Same. Just a few days ago...

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Reply #141 on: October 16, 2016, 02:56:53 PM

Sorry for your loss.
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Reply #142 on: October 16, 2016, 04:35:33 PM

Sorry Sky
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Reply #143 on: October 17, 2016, 08:11:12 AM

Ugh. Just Ugh. So sorry.

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Reply #144 on: October 17, 2016, 09:41:08 AM

Sorry, Sky. Losing a pet is way harder than non-pet people could ever imagine.

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Reply #145 on: October 17, 2016, 12:48:34 PM

When I lost my old gal cat of 19 years, I went into a 4 year funk of not having a cat. That was a mistake. When my second cat died (Archilochus Jones), I mourned, but I also allowed myself to get two new cats within a few months of Jone's passing. Life it too short to be catless for too long.

I should get back to nature, too.  You know, like going to a shop for groceries instead of the computer.  Maybe a condo in the woods that doesn't even have a health club or restaurant attached.  Buy a car with only two cup holders or something.

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Reply #146 on: October 17, 2016, 01:14:12 PM

My plan is to give it a year, take the time to be able to go out of town without planning for it, do some jobs around the house that don't require sequestering the cat, etc. Then keep my eye open for any stray candidates that show up (Bart showed up as a 7 week old kitten under the bush in front of the library, some kids came in saying there was a hissing mean cat in there...). I will probably get two cats this time, so they can keep each other company while I'm at work.

Things are down to a dull ache now, so a bit better. So hard to believe he's gone and not coming back.

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Reply #147 on: October 17, 2016, 02:01:49 PM

I think Sputnik died over 2 years ago now, and I still miss her regularly. But with every week that's gone past it's been easier to remember all the good memories of her instead of just the pain of losing her. Doesn't mean it doesn't still make us sad when we remember her, but that's OK.

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Reply #148 on: October 18, 2016, 06:08:10 AM

Oh poop, I am so sorry to hear about Bart Heartbreak  That you posted so much about him and that everyone knew his name showed just what he meant to you.  Pets are not like kids, but at the same time they fill a certain hole that even your kids, or any human beings for that matter, cannot.  Their is something about that unconditional love that goes in both directions that you just can't replace.  Hope you will share those pics, when you feel strong enough to do so.

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Reply #149 on: December 29, 2017, 11:27:46 AM

Mom decided to put down her dog, told me christmas day and had him removed two days ago. He went from being a dog that never made any sound to start wailing immediately as he was left alone and something like 10 days back she told me he started wailing during the night as well. Used to have him quite frequently before and he was pretty much the best dog you could have, never had him leashed when I was walking him and very relaxed when he stayed over. Was a bummer when he started getting arthritis and you no longer could throw frisbee with him to the same extent but always so damn cheerful when I came to visit.

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Reply #150 on: December 29, 2017, 07:19:15 PM

Sorry to hear it Sky. 

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Reply #151 on: December 29, 2017, 09:08:08 PM

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Reply #152 on: December 29, 2017, 09:21:40 PM

That sucks, Gimfain. Sometimes when they're in pain letting go is the best thing you can do, but damn is it rough.
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Reply #153 on: May 04, 2018, 05:20:56 PM

We had to say goodbye to our oldest cat, Isis today. She was a tiny girl, only 8 pounds at her peak but down to 4.5 pounds in the last month. Her liver started having some troubles over the past month and I decided to do the right thing and end it before the pain got bad.

She was a super sweet cat. Her only fault was that she liked to pee on high-pile rugs so we haven't had them for 15 years. Now we can get a few rugs to see how we like them again. This is the third time I've held a pet while they die and it really does not get easier with experience.

I definitely don't want to do the super depressing thing though - she had a good long life and was a great cat. I'm a bit sad and drinking whiskey but we made the right choice. As an aside, I no longer have people side-eyeing me when I tell them my cat's name is Isis. As if yes, asshole, I named my fifteen year old cat after a terror group named five years ago. Because the name Isis has NO possible other meaning. Wankers, all of them.
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Reply #154 on: May 05, 2018, 10:56:23 AM

Aw I am sorry to hear that. My sister's cat's name is Isis too, and she's in her waning years, and it's gonna be a horrid day in hell when she passes. You did the right thing, and also, Isis is a great name for a cat. Nothing like a facebook update from my sister with the title "Isis stole sausages from the pub again".

I should get back to nature, too.  You know, like going to a shop for groceries instead of the computer.  Maybe a condo in the woods that doesn't even have a health club or restaurant attached.  Buy a car with only two cup holders or something.

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Reply #155 on: May 05, 2018, 11:38:04 AM

That's too bad Hawkbit. Losing a pet you've had that long can't be easy.  I expect that I'll be going through the same thing in a year or so. I took my 18 year old cat to the vet a couple days ago and yesterday the vet called back with the results of the blood work. Stuart has first stage kidney disease. The vet says he probably only has a year or two left. Eighteen years is the longest I've had any pet and he'll be the first I'll actually have to put to sleep. His predecessor had a heart murmur  and died suddenly when he was seven.
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Reply #156 on: May 05, 2018, 01:16:35 PM

My condolences, it's hard to lose a companion of so long.  I too am looking at losing my oldsters soon, the 20 year old is starting to have balance problems and is eating less and less, the 18 year old is having more seizures and her feline dementia is getting slowly worse.
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