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Der Helm
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on: October 12, 2007, 11:49:28 AM

The last word has not been spoken, but it looks like I have lost the love of my life.

I am about to get really drunk as I write this

Help ? Advice ? Recipes for strong alcoholic beverages ?

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Reply #1 on: October 12, 2007, 11:53:35 AM

Hmmm.  Try as hard as you can or you will regret it.  Don't do anything really stupid.

Why am I homeless?  Why do all you motherfuckers need homes is the real question.
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Reply #2 on: October 12, 2007, 11:53:47 AM

Do you smoke?

Der Helm
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Reply #3 on: October 12, 2007, 11:56:38 AM

Hmmm.  Try as hard as you can or you will regret it.  Don't do anything really stupid.
I will, but she seemed awfully determined.

About 200 miles part us at the moment, no chance to to that.
(Apart from calling her in the next few hours)

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Reply #4 on: October 12, 2007, 11:58:19 AM

Do you smoke?
No.And I do not fell like killing myself.  undecided

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Reply #5 on: October 12, 2007, 12:01:26 PM

Do you smoke?
No.And I do not fell like killing myself.  undecided

IF THERE EVER WAS A TIME SIR, THIS IS WHAT SMOKES WERE CREATED FOR.

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Reply #6 on: October 12, 2007, 12:01:38 PM

You will need to apply thought and persistence.  I'm not suggesting anything will be fixed over the weekend.  If, at the end of it, you tried your best and failed then that will be as big a consolation as you can ever get (which is actually rather big), and that's the worst case.  Best case, you win.

Women always seem determined, don't let that deter you.  Well, refer back to "don't do anything stupid", but the important bit is to not give up prematurely.

Also don't take advice from internet assholes.

Why am I homeless?  Why do all you motherfuckers need homes is the real question.
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Reply #7 on: October 12, 2007, 12:05:28 PM

Hmmm.  Try as hard as you can or you will regret it.  Don't do anything really stupid.
I will, but she seemed awfully determined.

About 200 miles part us at the moment, no chance to to that.
(Apart from calling her in the next few hours)

200 miles?

It may just be time to move on. I agree with who ever said, don't do anything stupid. This also includes lots of overly long productions of love and other sappy things, its does neither of you any good, and with 200 miles, will only lead to bad things later and bloating the situation to a point of no return ...ever.
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Der Helm
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Reply #8 on: October 12, 2007, 12:07:44 PM

200 miles?

It may just be time to move on.
2 hours of travelling ? That's nothing. No way.

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Reply #9 on: October 12, 2007, 12:09:22 PM

200 miles?

It may just be time to move on.
2 hours of travelling ? That's nothing. No way.

You made it sound as if that was the crux of the issue. Thats still long distance...As if you have to PLAN to see each other, not just "Flow" together in life.

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Reply #10 on: October 12, 2007, 12:09:29 PM

Also don't take advice from internet assholes.
Advice from assholes is what the internet was made for, right ?

That and Porn(tm)!

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Reply #11 on: October 12, 2007, 12:11:11 PM

You made it sound as if that was the crux of the issue. Thats still long distance...As if you have to PLAN to see each other, not just "Flow" together in life.

Never thought about that. It just came naturally. But that could have been part of the problem.



(Looks like my Vocab./Grammar/Spelling are detoriating fast, sorry for that...)

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Reply #12 on: October 12, 2007, 12:12:01 PM

You're supposed to make these threads after you're drunk, not before.  I haven't read a good drunken thread in some time, it seems Cheddar has moved his drinks cabinet away from the computer.
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Reply #13 on: October 12, 2007, 12:13:55 PM

You're supposed to make these threads after you're drunk, not before.  I haven't read a good drunken thread in some time, it seems Cheddar has moved his drinks cabinet away from the computer.
Oh, no worries, if it satisfies you, I will keep posting when I come back. smiley

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Reply #14 on: October 12, 2007, 12:19:51 PM

Swear off women for a while. You might end up with a semi-popular website.

Take up smoking.
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Reply #15 on: October 12, 2007, 12:27:05 PM

Swear off women for a while. You might end up with a semi-popular website.

Take up smoking.
Smoking is to expensive over here, but I hear you on the website thing.

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Reply #16 on: October 12, 2007, 12:28:30 PM

Just take some time off, try not to make a big deal about it, see what happens.
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Reply #17 on: October 12, 2007, 12:31:37 PM

Ok, heading off now to get reallly drunk. I might appear on a TS server or here in the forum in a few hours, thank you for bearing with me through all of this.
(If the above sentence dos not make any sense, translate it word by word in german)

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Reply #18 on: October 12, 2007, 12:38:21 PM

Don't get drunk.
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Reply #19 on: October 12, 2007, 12:43:34 PM


Why am I homeless?  Why do all you motherfuckers need homes is the real question.
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Reply #20 on: October 12, 2007, 12:45:12 PM

DH,

You seem like a decent guy.  If she doesn't recognize that, I'd recommend that you find a woman that does.  The key to any successful relationship lies in the fact that both people must see the good in the other and feel lucky for having them in their lives.  If it's a one-way street, all the work in the world won't make your relationship worthwhile.  Don't beg her to come back.  Don't do anything of the sort.  If she doesn't see the value in having you in her life, then you should find a woman that really does appreciate you.  

I'm so sorry for your situation.  It sucks right now, but it will get better.  Either she will recognize that she wants to be with you or you'll find a quality woman that appreciates you even more.  

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Reply #21 on: October 12, 2007, 12:59:05 PM

What Nebu said.
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Reply #22 on: October 12, 2007, 01:04:08 PM

Der Helm is absolutely adorable.  He is obviously too good for her.  God, I hate her so much!  I'LLKILLHERFORHURTINGYOU!

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Reply #23 on: October 12, 2007, 01:32:20 PM

Just take some time off, try not to make a big deal about it, see what happens.


Yeah, making a huge issue about it now, could hurt any possibilities later.

State how you feel, leave the ball in her court...move on, don't wait (Don't wait means get on with your life, make a website, do a hobby..dosn't mean "Find new girl now!1!").

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Reply #24 on: October 12, 2007, 01:48:20 PM

Whatever you do, don't get liquored up and call her. That's a deathknell.

When it happened to me, I tied my best to talk to her about it and understand what the deal was, but the reality was she had checked out long before saying anything about it. This is usually the case. Get with your close friends and have a good time. Continue to go out places with people. Don't be insular, and don't spend the majority of your time online. Getting out is good.

Oh and get a dog if you don't have one. Dogs rock!

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Reply #25 on: October 12, 2007, 02:25:20 PM

Der Helm is absolutely adorable.  He is obviously too good for her.  God, I hate her so much!  I'LLKILLHERFORHURTINGYOU!

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Reply #26 on: October 12, 2007, 02:27:00 PM

Have you considered a weighted companion cube?
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Reply #27 on: October 12, 2007, 02:31:15 PM

Have you considered a weighted companion cube?

You so just won.

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Reply #28 on: October 12, 2007, 05:14:36 PM

DO NOT START SMOKING.
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Reply #29 on: October 12, 2007, 06:14:17 PM

Heh.
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Reply #30 on: October 12, 2007, 06:16:26 PM

Has anyone suggested hookers and blow yet?

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Reply #31 on: October 12, 2007, 06:22:37 PM

Has anyone suggested hookers and blow yet?
No, Why?  :-D


God I am so drunk!

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Reply #32 on: October 12, 2007, 06:24:00 PM

Ya, blow the hookers.  That's a good plan.

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Reply #33 on: October 12, 2007, 06:26:37 PM

Ya, blow the hookers.  That's a good plan.
Huh?

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Reply #34 on: October 12, 2007, 06:30:46 PM


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